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Monday, August 22, 2011

Stay Strong


Back in my secondary school, there was a junior of mine that was involved in the spread of pornographic videos and pictures of herself and her few other male friends. It was a something*some (I am not too sure of the number of people in the video because I did not REALLY watch it), you know what I mean right? Yes, those kids make love, they got high and they recorded it.

That girl was a Form 3 students and her future was blown apart when her male friends transferred the video to the whole school. My friends from other schools also knew about it and she did not attend school for a week. When she came back, her class mates ignored her completely, because for them a girl who studied in a "kelas aliran agama" should never do that kind of stupid thing. Then I heard that she had been expelled from the school, but some said she asked to move out of the school due to the public humiliation.

Then, the video became a hit in the internet and the people in my town were talking about the school girl. And what irks me so much is that they blame the girl ONLY, and not the other boys as well. To my acknowledge, some of the boys still studied in the school like nothing had happened. Look at how the society easily points their fingers to that poor girl. 

What I am trying to say here is that, we sometimes do not realize that we blame the wrong person, or maybe we did not look back at our mistakes. Yes, they had sex and got it taped but why do WE watch it? And why do WE blame the girl without even considering about her family's feeling? 

Think about it this way; what if it happens to our family one day? To my readers, if you come across this kind of incident one day, please do not bully the do-er or the victim by watching, spreading or uploading such a video on the internet. Everybody makes mistakes, and we learn better that way. To the victim/do-er, just stay strong and please do not commit suicide. Let bygones be bygones, and stay strong! 

P/S: I know I am in no position to talk about this, but I write it based on humanity.

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14 comments:

Syazwan Che Deraman said...

kesian pompuan tu.macam ni la mentaliti rakyat kita.
hmmm..
macam mana la dia skarang.

muhamad hanif said...

Err,

adakah patut aku kesiankan beliau?



ummpph.

^^Nur Izat^^ said...

'typical malaysian thinking' are always blame on one side only... mmg lumrah & adat rakyat malaysia barangkali... hrrmmm...

Queen F said...

people will say > pandai buat pandai tanggung :|

haishh kalau dah tersalah langkah ni susahhh :) pikir dulu sebelum buat.. hehe :)

btw gossip boi, mana ada tak terasa hati pon dengan anda :D

Azham Vosovic said...

Syazwan: kesian sbb dia muda lagi masa tu, mcmna la masa depan dia kan? mintak simpang malaikat 44...

Hanif: hurm, kesian, sbb dia sorang je yg dipersalahkan.... kawan2 laki dia selamba je merosakkan anak lelaki lain...

Izat: hur, betul tu akak... so kita sebagai bakal guru kena ubah mentaliti rakyat Msia ni...

Azham Vosovic said...

Queen F: this is a note to self too, takut sgt kalau saya sendiri menjadi mangsa kan? or my family members or friends....

Wadi AR said...

hai ticer. kite same profesion.

Ezay Hadry said...

salah tetap salah,
tapi keaiban diri, keluarga perlu dijage,
bukankah islam tu bagus tuk semua??

blog-tips-kurus said...

jadikan teladan..

Azham Vosovic said...

Wadi AR: hi teacher.... hehehe

Ezay Hadry: Entahlah, sekarang saya rasa mcm sy sendiri tak layak ckp psl benda ni...

blog-tips-kurus: betul tu akak....

YOUsoF said...

Kawan aku punya kawan ada kes macam ni.. Tapi apa² hal pun perasaan afmily kenajaga.. Nak buat apa pun kena fikir masak².. Ikutkan nafsu badan binasa..

Azham Vosovic said...

YOUsoF: huhuu, skrg pon dah banyak.... huhuhu...terasa sy mmg x layak tulis benda ni...nak padam lah....

Aziela said...

It's good that u share this story. Some people might be hit by this wake-up call. Injustice everywhere for women.. Sigh..

Azham Vosovic said...

Aziela: hehehe, thanks for your support...and for reading this lengthy post heheh

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