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I grew up in a community where everybody is concern of what everybody is doing; whether it is good or bad thing I shall not elaborate on that yet. The neighbour on the right side of the house keeps yelling at her small children and there was a day I heard noises of a broken pottery; I hope that she did not hurt any of her children physically. The house on the left side however has a truly different story; the children keeps on quarreling day and night but the parents do nothing at all to keep their voices down.
Sometimes my parents came back in the morning after their working shift at night wanted to have some peaceful sleep but our neighbours welcomed them with loud screaming and squeaking. I bet all of you will feel sorry on us as we are stuck in between those troublesome families but do not judge too early. Look at me, I spread their stories online to all of you so that makes me a fussy neighbour right?
I need to do this, I need to inform my neighbour on the right side of the house to treat their children nicely, talk to them in no dictatorial manner before they vent out their anger to their parents; trust me that it happens on the TV most of the time. And to the neighbour on the left side, please be firmer to your kids or they will just grow up and be a spoiled brat, really. To myself as the neighbour in the middle of this catastrophe, please be more tolerate as you are not living in this world alone!
The issue is simple; things will be settled when we start to talk to each other rather than about each other. Do all of you get me? Instead of pointing fingers blaming each other, why don't all of you speak the truth even if your voice shakes? At least you communicate your emotions in a right way and insyaallah you will find a way. That's all for my article today, take care and God bless.
P/S: If only my neighbours read my blog ;)
:Glossary:
Fussy : cerewet
Neighbour : jiran
Concern : prihatin
Elaborate : huraikan
Yelling : menjerit
Pottery : tembikar
Quarreling : bertengkar
Welcomed : menyambut
Screaming : jeritan
Squeaking : bunyi keriut/bising
Stuck : tersepit
Troublesome : bermasalah
Jugde : menghukum
Spread : menyebarkan
Dictatorial : mengarah
Manner : perbuatan
Vent out : melepaskan perasaan
Firmer : lebih tegas
Spoiled brat : anak manja
Catastrophe : bencana
Tolerate : bertoleransi
25 comments:
jgn sampai jadi kes dera smpai mati sudah =)
semutsengal: nanti aku call Talian Nur hehe
u're lucky u know to have this type of neighbour although they seem a lil bit annoying and busybody. compared to mine who doesn't even care about others. gate always close and sometimes when we meet in kenduri kahwin org majlis2, we didn't know (or they didn't) that both of us are living in the same community. duhhh
seksa zahir dan batin ade jiran gituu.. aiyakk..
slow talk takboleh ? klau bolat sounde je.. hihih..
mak eh! u tinggal area mane??
kalau u nk pergi advise jgn smpai u plak yg kene sudah laa...
u were really a fussy neighbour. :)
haishh..susah nak pk positif dgn jiran2 camnie..
nasip baik rumah chemay dekat area taman rumah cina tua2.
tak ada anak.
so tak bising.
heeee
:)
i dont communicate well with my neighbors because i am a very shy person..hehe ;p
Elle: actually I don't mingle with my neighbors that much...especially when I'm studying "abroad" so I feel a bot shy to join them at kenduris...
Cekbolat: huhu, tak boleh, sbb kita sama2 manusia...semua ada rasa marah...
Fara: hehe, I mmg fussy kan? teruk betul, tp takkan smpai ganggu privasi jiran...tak seronok la nk dok dlm umah....
biela: hehe, susah tol...takut gak nk confront actually
chemay: aik, diorang x bela anjing ker?
Zuan: huhu, a'ah Jue pon ckp kau ni "shy" heheheh
try to respect each other, that way we'll be live peace n harmony.. =)
saya sekeluarga pula, memang memilih untuk berjiran dgn org2 yg tidak mempeduli psl org lain..
so its quite quiet here...:)
yad'z: yes! that's the best we could do...
T.Hmaid: hehe, bagus gak idea tu...tengoklah nanti saya beli rumah sendiri hehehe
Semoga jiran hang baca la blog ni.,. HAHA
kita kalau hidup berjiran mesti menghormati antara satu sama lain
p/s : once again, atok puji dictonary at last entry tu =)
jiran sepakat membawa berkat
hope that yr neighbour read this article..hehe..^^
ZWAN: hehe, tak da lah...tu cuma satu pernyataan hehe
Atok: serious Atok puji? yeay, thanks atok!
BTL: hehe, betul tu akak...sy ni cerewet sgt hehe
Princess: hehe, if only right?
susah jugak kalau dapat jiran yang macam ni...kalau dia baca ni pun ok jugak kan...HAHA~
Ezad: kalau dia baca nanti kena serang hahaha
aha, maybe anak jiran pandai baca your blog ke nanti? hehe dia boleh reflect balik kelak.
Kayun: hahaha...harap2nya begitu hehehee
speak the truth kat dia kang dia sentap pulak. tak pasal kena sound balik. hehe.
luckily my jiran ok. haha.
rozeeta: to itu lebih baik dr mengumpat dia kt dlm blog haha....like what I am doing now hahahaha
tu la. kita memang dibesarkan di dalam masyarakat yang super duper prihatin tak kira baik atau buruk.
memang kita kene fikir positif as you said"be more tolerate as you are not living in this world alone!" tapii..
agak agak la beb. ko pun nak hidup gak.
solution mungkin ditemui dengan slow talk or whatever, tapi kesedaran diri sendiri tu lagi penting bagi jiran tu.
semoga doa ko termakbul supaya jiran ko baca. hahaha..
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